She started having sex at 16 and now wants to rest, Help!
I am 44 years old and I have been married for 15 years. My wife and I have four children.
I met my wife when she was 28 and we got married one year later.
All this time our sex life was good, I never cheated on her because she always satisfied my needs in the bedroom. My performance in bed is also good, she never complained.
We would have sex two and three times for the night. Sometimes we had sex during the days and then at nights.
The problem that I am having now is that she says she is tired of having sex. “I don’t feel for sex” is what she always says and has maintained that she is just turned off from sex. I have had too much of it and its now time to rest.
My wife started having sex as young as 16 and she is only 40, What could be the problem?
I have asked our pastor to talk to her but nothing has changed, I love my wife and as a Christian i know cheating is wrong, I am a man i have needs, please help, How do i get her to like sex again?